It All Begins With YOU (Part 3)
“Sometimes you find yourself asking, ‘What’s wrong with me? Why do I never get anybody in my life that I like? Why do I keep creating this junk over and over again?’ Perhaps it is time to ask different questions such as, ‘What’s right with me? What did I do right today? How grand am I?” List them all! You will see that many of you can sustain this for a day or two. My challenge to you is for you to do this all of the time. All of the time! Make it a game. Get your friends in on it. Say, ‘How many did you get today?’ ‘Oh! I got 35 things that I did great.’ ‘Oh I beat you! I got 37!’ See? Make a fun little game out of it. Bring your friends in.
This is another essential part of learning to love — bringing your friends in for support. Many of you want to stay isolated in this self-discovery. Why? ‘I can do it on my own. I don’t need anybody.’ That’s what you say. But you really do need others. Why else do you think you attract people in your life? Because they help you to grow. So, be out there. This is no time for shyness. This is now time to say, ‘Is there anybody out there that can help me with this?’ That is what you need to say. This is the place where miracles can begin.”